so... things are definitely winding down here. I'm starting to say goodbye to people. I've had to start thinking of things as my 'last'. It's weird to consider that two years are almost over. next week I need to start packing my house over to my site mates and in 9 days I get on a bus to check out in rabat and then in 13 days I board a plane and head home. Holy Cow. This is obviously a highly complicated time so I thought I'd keep this post a little less rambly and a little more cut and dry. so here's that. enjoy!
Things I am going to miss about morocco
- The
kindness and generosity of strangers here
- How
people just give you things for free all the time
- How
little kids need to be entertained ( ie piece of carboard, rocks, candy
wrappers) and how parents/adults don’t feel the constant need to be shoving
entertainment in kids faces
- How
total strangers will often share food or cold water with you on a hot day or a long
trip
- Sleeping
outside in my courtyard for most of the year
- Going
shopping at weekly souks
- Fruits
that are hard to come by stateside- fresh figs, fresh dates, excessive amounts
of pomegranates, cactus fruit and fresh apricots (that come with the added
bonus of being called mish mash)
- How
being a vegetarian finally pays off ( meat should be more expensive than
produce people! )
- The
food- especially Cous cous, msimin/milwi (ie fried bread) and rfisa
- Donuts
and bread and all sorts of other random stuff available for next to nothing on
the street
- Having
my own kitchen and having the time to cook and experiment
- Having
my own house
- How
people aren’t plugged in all the time
- When interacting with teenagers especially girls - I like how in morocco body image and self esteem aren't the first issues that come up. It's really liberating
- Knowing
people in town- ie my veggie guy, my cookie ladies, my taxi guy etc…
- Having
time to do excessive amounts of crafts
- Doing
yoga in my courtyard
- The
stars! And the meteors/shooting stars
- Not
being stressed about time or money generally speaking
- Public
transportation, cheap taxis and being able to walk places
Things I am not going to miss about morocco
- F*%#ing
flies
- The
water going out for many hours and/or days at a time
- Sharing
water bottles and water glasses with anyone and everyone
- People
coughing on me/ people not covering their mouths when they sneeze or cough
- The way adults physical discipline children
- Lack
of trash/litter infrastructure and etiquette ie people just throwing trash
everywhere.
- People
throwing up on public transport
- People
invading my personal space on public transport
- Unwanted
attention/harassment
- Ryals- I hate doing math to go shopping- royals are not a real currency just use dirhams!
- Not
having all the produce I may want at any given time
- Shitty
internet
- How
people let their cell phones ring loudly and for a long time and also just pick
it up whenever they choose for example when we are in the middle of a
conversation, while they are driving a very crowded taxi etc etc… (but the
Christmas ring tones are great, I personally have heard silent night, jingle
bells, frosty and rudolph)
- People
taking craft projects out of my hands or bag to work on them…. I do not share
my crafts well.
- Having
to “dance monkey dance” every time I need to do simple things such as shopping
(ie bargaining ) or having to deal with my mumbling incomprehensible bank/post
office guy for 30 minutes just to take out my money
- Being
constantly asked about my child and marital status.
- Feeling
anxious about what I wear every time I leave the house
- Paying
1/3rd of my rent for a bottle of booze
Things I am
looking forward to Stateside
- Trees!
- Hiking
trails
- Getting
to dress however I want and not feeling too weird about it
- The
accessibility and ease of things- ie no one giving a shit (no harassment)
- Big
cups of delicious coffee
- Chinese,
Mexican, Japanese, and Indian food- let’s be honest how much variety there is
in food
- Intentional
vegetarian cuisine- not just a meal that’s been cooked without meat
- Living
in a more secular culture again
- Better
craft supplies ( I cannot wait until my first shopping trip to a yarn store-
it’s going to get crazy!)
- Heating
and hot showers
- Simple
meals and the novelty of cooking things from scratch instead of always having
to cook things from scratch
- No
one paying me excessive unwanted attention
- The
familiarity
- Family
and Friends!